Become a Real Flirt
Flirting is an art, and to become a real flirt may be as difficult as to become and artist, an actor, a musician… What seems easy at the first glance may cause a lot of problems. And what caused troubles at first may seem an easy thing to do later on. But only practice will make your flirting skills perfect. Whoever you are some flirting tips may be very useful. The most important thing is to identify that the woman is flirting. She really is if:

She constantly tries to establish an eye contact with you. Direct eye contact is maintained all the time.
She is copying the way you sit and move, in a restaurant she may order the same meal as you eat
Innocent batting of eyelashes, blinking and winking
Her open mouthed smile shines all the time
She is licking her lips
She pushes her chest forward facing you
She crosses and uncrosses her legs
Her open legged posture faces you
She is displaying flesh of her arms and thighs
She touches you occasionally or finds strange excuses
She laughs a lot

Flirting left without attention is not considered successful. The person who is flirting and is not getting a response is likely to give up or to switch to another object. But you do not want to lose her! Hence you need to respond to her flirting:
First of all be yourself. You and not another person are trying to get a woman.
Relax and be ready to maintain the contact and the conversation
Show you confidence to other people
Tell the truth. Flattery is not a lie if you are sincere. Flattery is an emphasizing her best points.
Be truthful in everything you say, especially in your intentions. Besides, when you always say the truth, you do not have to remember what a lie you tell her last time.
Repeat her name in conversation
Live in the present. Even if you have had any misfortunes forget about them. Concentrate on the current situation.
Make her the centre of your attention. And the only centre. Listen to her.
Ask her question to show your interest.

But be aware that there several “don’ts” in flirting:
Don’t make her bored
Don’t grope her
Don’t be vulgar
Don’t be dumb during the conversation. If you have nothing to say at least ask her questions.
Be sure your words make sense.
Don’t be nervous
Don’t rush
Don’t make her uncomfortable

Date
You’ve got it!! You are having a date soon. What a mass of things you should decide on? What to wear? What to say? And finally where to go?

Calm down and be sensible. Collect all the information available: she may have mentioned that she enjoys jazz music, or is going to a dancing club. Such hinders may help you to choose the place of the date:

Restaurant, caf?, coffee house,
Theatre, cinema
Concert of a jazz band, classic music concert
Dancing club
Walking by a lake, river, in the park
Roller skating
Skiing
Horseback riding
Football, hockey matches, etc only acceptable if she is sporty. Otherwise she will fall asleep in 5 minutes.
Paragliding, snowboarding, surfing is quite an extreme activity so make sure she is looking for extreme.
Bowling
Picnic, barbeque
Museum, exhibition

Dating rule
The first and the most important rule is to be oneself. YOU want to get her and not the other guy. You would be disappointed if you discovered that she is actually another woman different form the one you get acquainted with. She expects you to be yourself too. Besides, when you are not pretending that you are somebody else you act naturally. Do not be afraid that she won’t like you. Nevertheless you have a right, you should, you must perform your best and exhibit your best qualities to show her that you are a gorgeous guy.
Look your best! You will spend some time together and she will get an opportunity to get to know your better. But the way you look is still important. Women like being seen with cool, attractive and well-groomed guy. She is hardly expecting you to be a movie star, but she wants you to be well-groomed and well-dressed.
You may want to be original and extravagant. But don’t go too far. An extraordinary untraditional movie or an African meal may not appeal to her. Try something traditional for the first time unless you are sure she appreciates your efforts.
Remove bad odor! Say “No” to bad breath. Use deodorant to get rid of the body smell. Prepare a gift for her. The gift shows that you are interested in her and spent some time choosing it. If troubles with the gift arouse flowers are always welcomed.
Be punctual.
Your sense of humor and wit will not only charm her but provide you with a way out when embarrassing situations occur.
Maintain the conversation. Topics to discuss may be examined beforehand: read the latest news, some newspapers to be aware what is going on in the outer world.
Be ready to ask her for a dance. Even if have never danced before at least try! Ask somebody to show you some steps in advance.
Women like romance. Dine her out, go for a walk with her, visit some scenic places, watch a sunset together.
Present yourself as a gentleman or even a knight. Be polite, pull her chair for her and hold the door for her.
Prevent any phone calls. If the call is urgent explain her everything and apologize for interrupting the conversation.
Do not rush her into sex. Most woman feel abused to listen to such a proposition just on the first date. It will happen naturally after some time.
Make sure she knows that you are having a great time with her. But do not lie. If something confusing has happened do not pay much attention. Say something funny and do not discuss it any more.
At the end of the date it’s time to decide how you feel about her. If you are not inclined to date her say your “good night” or “nice to meet you” or something pleasant of the kind. Then leave. The things are different if you are attracted to her. Say you will call her then. The kiss is also a controversial thing to do. Some women do not find it suitable on the first date. Others will be disappointed with you on condition you didn’t kiss them. Try to guess her intentions. In any case she will make the first move.

How Can I Impress Her?
Confidence, confidence, confidence. Show that you can secure her, that you are independent and have a great self-esteem.
But do not ask for security. She is not dating you to solve your problems. Do not whine! Be a real man.
Start a conversation. Make her interested in it. She will talk all the time on the topics she like and after that she will be sure you are such an interesting person to talk to!
If you have any wit or humor show it.
Hold her hand when tact allows.

What women want…

All the women are different. Nevertheless most of them look for a set of basic characteristics in men:
Confidence
Ability to smile
Humor and wit
Attractiveness and the ability to take care of one’s appearance
Romance, emotional connection

You are not sure whether she is attracted to you? Observe her movements and find any of the following to be sure she is interested in you:

She leans forward with interest
She touches her face
She pushes her breasts forward while speaking to you
She crosses and uncrosses her legs
Her voice is gentle and quite calm
She is licking her lips
She gazes at you constantly
She is constantly present you with smiles
She is laughing all the time even when you can’t identify the reasons
By insensible degrees she is trying to perform her best to impress you. It’s the right time you performed YOUR best! Do it and get her!